Perhaps in time I’ll solve that as well.
“You think relationships are difficult? Try friendships. Try courting someone in order to convince them to join you in some nameless, shapeless platonic complication — forever. Convince an adult stranger that you are worth a healthy slice of their limited time and energy without the prize of sex or romance.”—Laura Jayne Martin (via imanface)
i have not had time to watch this show but the quote is gold.
its totes ok to getchu a platonic life companion.
(jay and silent bobs hetero life partner shit wasnt totally off)
that shit sounds productive and useful as fuck
and you should be able to put em down on your health insurance too!
why people cant be friends to that extent? and be recognized? you know some folks are closer than family even. why its only relevant when its romantic.
what if youre perfect for each other and love each other and shit. who gets to validate what relationships matter?
I say this all the time man
Don’t text the person asking how they are and when they are honest and say “not so great, but how’ve you been?” do not, under any circumstances, ignore that text and never reply.
The thought process would then follow something like, for example “they don’t want to talk to me because hey, the crazy one is just sad again! You’re just being miserable of course he won’t answer you. Not like he’s your real friend anyway” etc. etc.
Is it okay to reblog this?
Because oh god I thought it was just me who reacted to texts like this. Guess not.. kind of makes me feel a little better.
Today was a bad bad case of this :/
can all my friends please fucking take note of this
this is important
you know who you are, people who i know offline who also text me
there are a few of you
(Source: c--hase, via thechocolatebrigade)
having a friendship with me is like nurturing a tiny baby seed
you have to be patient and give it lots of water and not get upset if it doesn’t grow right away because it takes a while…..
and then it sprouts and you can tell hey because i talk a little more and maybe start conversations
and then you water it more
and then suddenly it blooms and you realize it’s A WEED YOU DON’T WANT THIS IN YOUR GARDEN BUT IT’S TOO LATE IT NEVER STOPS IT NEVER SHUTS UP
(Source: , via theirriandjhiquishow-deactivate)
